HATE - Page 3

runfromyourwife · (#51 (**permalink**))

Bwoy

All the high and mighty are calling in to make lofty speeches about the uneccessariness of it all.

Hello!

internet

not real world -online world

World where we can loosen our weaves -well it's all weaves now aint it? nobody wears braids anymore like they do in Africa.

Hmph!

We all go for the straight and fake look these days, got to fit in, can't be seen to be too "ethnic" at the office.

They're saying we've proven the Respecta right - hmm!

Er so?

Without argument and joke and diss and cuss what's the point?

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Mafdet · (#52 (**permalink**))

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I know not EVERY single post is like this, but a hell of a lot are. Why is there so much of this, hate is the worst emotion imaginable, it has destroyed the black race for years, and we are just here continuing it:

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I smell a fake in the village!!!!!

Mafdet · (#53 (**permalink**))

respecta wrote:

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I have read a lot of the threads on here, but i like discussions, about politics, philosophy, how the world is etc. and a lot these for me have produced awful reactions, which upset me. Yes there are fun posts which make me laugh and are light-hearted, but on more serious issues i've read some horrible stuff

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I smell a fake "child" in the village

Kunjufu · (#54 (**permalink**))

runfromyourwife wrote:

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Bwoy

All the high and mighty are calling in to make lofty speeches about the uneccessariness of it all.

Hello!

internet

not real world -online world

World where we can loosen our weaves -well it's all weaves now aint it? nobody wears braids anymore like they do in Africa.

Hmph!

We all go for the straight and fake look these days, got to fit in, can't be seen to be too "ethnic" at the office.

They're saying we've proven the Respecta right - hmm!

Er so?

Without argument and joke and diss and cuss what's the point?

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[align=center]LOL![/align]

[align=center]>>>>KISS TEET<<<<[/align]

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RFYW: As you make the point let me answer it directly...If one arguments and jokes and diss and cussin context and in line with the arguement at hand no argument from me.. However there is a point when doing it for the sake of doing it or for effect!!!, become boring tedious and downright tiresome..

This is as I've already advised Respecta is a Village of diverse views, however that does not mean that you or anyone else has the right to pollute or swamp the Village without abstract and totally meaningless comments completely out of context to the thread in hand.....or to express those views in a highly personalised way. I can't even begin to count the amount of times I've had to say this.. So why in the hell am i repeating myself yet again about the same flippin thing...why?

You know my expectation is that so called mature adults behave like adults and with the maturity that befits their age and not their friggin shoe size...So i'm gonna make it damned clear I'm absolutely fed up to the back teeth in reffering people who do not appear able to discuss or hold a discourse in an adult fashion..its not friggin hard for christsake..

One person makes a flippin point the other responds,and so on and so forth,that is how it normally works, so here's the deal either people begin to develop these skills or they learn to use another place for their stupidness... I'm not having this place characterised my mindless dribble or every thread decending into chaos just because some people cannot learn to eith grow up or debate sensibly..

I'm no longer prepared to argue, reason or placate people who do not appear to have the very basics that their parent ought to have instill in them as a friggin child..that is the basic conceppt of manners and respect..you know its called standards and morals.. that old fashion idea...!!!!

If you don't feel you have these triats or you feel unable to contro youself or act your age do us and yourself a favour and MOVE ON!!!!okay...

runfromyourwife · (#55 (**permalink**))

Oh is that how it is?

Well that makes me sad.

Peacemaker · (#56 (**permalink**))

The person who started this thread had no good intentions you know.

Some of you need to learn to read people better.

SHE is almost taking the piss.

free · (#57 (**permalink**))

good or bad intention

the point has been proved

Peacemaker · (#58 (**permalink**))

It's also been proven everywhere else in the known world.

Miss Brighter Days · (#59 (**permalink**))

Nah the person who started this thread's point has not been proved at all.

The foolishness between me and RFYW, carried over fromanother thread, which shouldn't have happened. But, that was between me and him, and should not have escalated in the way it did. Where an african nation and its people are being insulted!

Howeverthis does not mean that BN is filled with hate. That is ridiculous, there is so much fun to be had here, so much to think about, so much to laugh about etc.

Let the starter of this thread just explore and get involved they will soon learn, why we all keep coming back to BN!

free · (#60 (**permalink**))

MBD true enough...my view is she started a thread...and then an argument ensued...(the poster's intentions or whether they are genuine I have no idea...as their are a large number of posters who for want of not cussing them are...inconsistent

doesn't mean that the point she made is absolute...

but the argument that followed supported her POV and unless you were a regular to the village from some threads there is no way to tell the history of written warfare that occurs...and whether it is a joke thing or not...

don't get me wrong...I cannot say that I have not caught joke...

and if I thought that BN was wholly negative I would not post here in the first place...

and reading and seeing are two different things...

and the reason why human interaction at times is better than writing...

because even with the most innocent of intentions...

people can give something simple a negative meaning...

Miss Brighter Days · (#61 (**permalink**))

free wrote:

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MBD true enough...my view is she started a thread...and then an argument ensued...(the poster's intentions or whether they are genuine I have no idea...as their are a large number of posters who for want of not cussing them are...inconsistent

doesn't mean that the point she made is absolute...

but the argument that followed supported her POV and unless you were a regular to the village from some threads there is no way to tell the history of written warfare that occurs...and whether it is a joke thing or not...

don't get me wrong...I cannot say that I have not caught joke...

and if I thought that BN was wholly negative I would not post here in the first place...

and reading and seeing are two different things...

and the reason why human interaction at times is better than writing...

because even with the most innocent of intentions...

people can give something simple a negative meaning...

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fREE i do understand what you are saying. Which is why i said she/he should explore. To look at this thread or a few threads in isolation, would give anyone just a part of the picture. You can't make an entire judgement of a website on what happens in a few threads. If he/she went into the sport's forum she would see a different vibe, then into the entertainments forum another vibe, then into the under 18's forum, where to be honest they haven't got time for any long tings, they just express themselves another vibe again, then to the African arts forum, once again something different. There are so many different forums here, which attract different types of posters, and as someone who has been a poster for a long time, and now a moderator, no way does hate prevail!

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All i am saying is this, what ensued between me and RFYW, is just one example of what happens here. Sometimes people cuss each other, although it should be kept in context, which it wasn't in this instance. But you don't need to be an old poster to find out what BN is all about, an hour will allow you to explore whats what and make your judgements.