It seems that many people are able to tell who fancies them and who doesn't. Unfortunately, I'm not one of them, which has in the past resulted in some embarassing situations. What are the signs someone fancies you?

nb: plse dont start making assumptions-u know who u r

One thing that I am learning to look at that I didn't before is how to read body language. I also have notice that women tend to engage or strike-up conversation with me.

Sometimes I can totally notice some of the women just make it so simplewithbody language say a thing but I can tell they want a handsome brotha like me to approach'em. blktrainers

Some ways to notice is if she stands with her shoulders facing square with yours, also if her head is pointed in your direction not looking elsewhere as if distracted and she pays attention to what you have to say.

These are some of the tactics I look forand every advance that I have made after noticing certain signs has been sucessful.

Body language is the key in my opinion; learn how to read it and you should be alright bruh!

Ask some of these ladies here bruh! They'll tell you! Right ladies? :?

Some men can be really stupid when getting the message that you like them.

but im to shy anyways so i hate showing my feelings incase i get rejected. (lucky i got a man now lol)


if a girl is constantly watching you, face's you with her body, plays with hair etc. she generally likes you. If she keep smiling thats a good sign to.

but that can be confused with a false smile as to say "get the hell out of my way"

but more obvious signs is she wont stop calling you. now thats a potential stalker!

like coltrane - i'm not good at noticing signs either

I don't think it's overtly easy to tell as different ppl project different vibes for eg. If I was into a guy, I wouldn't go out of my way to show him that (my loss? maybe) because I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that.

@Coltrane it would be good if you gave a scenario then we could try and assess it that way..

Well, i am as clueless as you can get when it comes to reading signs...

Personally, If i like a guy the most i will do is try to catch his attention with a little smile... if he doesn't get that.. then oh well... it might well be my loss buti just don't like stupid things like twisting your hair or overtly flirting, it ain't my natural self and it just comes across assilly schoolgirlstuff...

The best sign a guy can give me to let me know he is in to me is, if he comes and tells me...

@Abbissinia Wrote:The best sign a guy can give me to let me know he is in to me is, if he comes and tells me...

LOL that is no longer a sign, once he opens his mouth then he has said it all.

What confuses me is- You know agirlwho is very lively today, and then tomorrow she is doesn't want to talk and she's acting funny. The next day she is ok to talk to you, and it goes on like that foreverie she blows cold and hot . What does that means?

Also if a girls tell you that you are good looking etc and then she gives you a hint that she will turn you down. Why the hell did you say i am good looking, very annoying and confusing.

Also if a girl keeps telling you to call her, but she doesn't call you. What does that means?

What does I am busy means?

LOL @ Saint! She obviously can't make her mind up...don't get involved in that mess is my advice!


I have no problem with noticing it when someone fancies me...my problem is that I start blktrainers when I realise they fancy me, instead of confronting it...how can you let someone down gently?

Oh and alot of guys think I fancy them when I don't! I'm not a flirt but people can mistake your friendliness for flirting...I smile at everyone even the tramps on the street...it doesn't mean anything and there is nothing special about it...people over analyse the opposite sex' moves too much imo.


Now my b/f never let me know he fancied me...took him a whole year to pluck up the courage to ask me out. And now we've been happily together for over 2 years...

I hear what your saying , about being friendly with a man, but he's thinking u fancy him. HATE THAT. sport-smiley

@Coltrane you are not alone and that works both ways. I have liked women most of whom were none the wiser and vice versa.

I don't think there is any general rule other than if a person likes you they are more open to you in terms of interaction, body language, types of exchanges etc. The degree to which is a completelydifferent thing depending on the woman.

One may flash signs others maybe far more circumspect and that may well be their general behaviour but due to the circumstances play things very cooly. Women fear rejection just as men and even worst at times.

But I believe your ears are key because the degree to which a woman likes you will probably be communicated very indirectly or in oblique ways. People who tell you things straight always make life easier but not everybody works like that.

@Saint. Give that girl a wide berth bro. A good Man united supporter don't have to be jumpint to no girls tune....Giving her too much power in the game homeboy.

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