First of all I like this site and have been here few other times, but never posted any thing before. Here goes my first post .

We (not all) blame others for our problems, we blame others why our kids are in the streets, we blame others why our kids don't get good education, we blame others why most of us never want college, we blame others for our own mistakes and never admit that we are the problem sometimes. We hate each other more than we admit, we neclect our leaders ideas, we don't listen each other. When will most of us stand up and be counted? When will some of us take charge on our own lives and stop blaming others anddo something about our own communities.

As a black man, every city I have seen we act, and behave the same way, and no one stands up to challenge these retarded people to realize no one cares their lives but themselves, I am sick off blacks not getting their piece in this world, I am sick ofcrimes that have left our part cities in deserts.

I know some of you are doing your best, but are others following.

Say your piece here on what you are sick of on our black people ?

Mind of slaves.

Not realy. My main point if you have brain is that, when things are not going well on our own communities, we blame others, instead of taking the lead role.

P.S. BlackMatta, tell me why every where you go things are not going well for our people.

If we get our act together would there be any incitement to black?

BlackMatta, You tell me have you not seen so many blacks, when asked why are you not going to school, get a job, take care of your wife, be there for your kids they always mention others for their being. Am I coming as blaming or pointing out what's the truth.

Where Have you been? If on earth yes I have seen it :P.

What?

Bele

I don't think you have. The majority of Blacks I happen to know have jobs and stable relationships.

BlackMatta.


Sorry, I did not mean Black Power for those you know but millions you haven't seen yet. I didn't mane Black Power with low paying jobs, children living with one parent as good jobs and good relationships.

@Bele

So where are we so far...

Not on the same earth as you said it.

...ah yes...

"Taking the lead" in "poor communities"

Bele

I don't think you have. The majority of Blacks I happen to know have jobs and stable relationships.

BlackMatta.
WHAT HAPPENED TO THE JOBS AND STABLE RELATIONSHIPS THEY HAD?

With me so far?

NOT REALLY.



BlackMatta.

Till blacks start taking their responsibilities, and stop blaming others for all their problems the future for our kids are not that so bright.

Getting some coffee.

Let me explain my point again and again. I have lived almost three continents on this earth, and every where I go, we seem lost on the same mentality that have left generations that came before us. Tell me where I am wrong on this.

Bele

You have to do more than just take responsibility. People have to organise, make decisions as a community, invest and create opportunity in their communities, communicate andinfluence their communities.

These things happen at local and national government level.


YOU ARE RIGHT IN ONE PART, PEOPLE HAVE TO ORGANISE AND MAKE DECISIONS. BUT YOUR WRONG ON THE IDEA THAT LOCAL AND NATIONAL GOVERNMENTAL LEVEL IS WHERE THINGS HAPPEN. THE BLACK PROBLEM CAN NOT BE SOLVED BY LOCAL AND NATIONAL GOVERNMENTS, BUT IN OUR HOMES AND IN OUR POWER AS PEOPLE WHO ONCE HAD KINGDOMS THAT THE WEST COULD NOT. ASKING LOCAL AND NATIONAL GOVERNMENTS TO SOLVE OUR PROBLEMS WE WILL WAIT TILL THE END.

mmmm

BELE has a point tho we as black luv 2 blame our issue on other peeps.

cough! its da white man innit!!..



LMFAO, its so funny when some of us say that phrase.. its kinda shameful as well. r we tryna say that we cannot tell right from wrong.


e.g -- A black youngster shot another black man 14 times..

whats the excuse..

Its da white man!!. They put gunz in our community

LOL 4 REAL WE NEED TO START TAKIN RESPONSIBILITES FOR OUR OWN WRONG DOINGS AND MAKE A CHANGE..



YES SIR!