Ok, so what do u propose black women do?

I understand your point, but what can I do, i need to work to feed myself, to feed my children, and white men run the economy therefore i need to work in their system to be able to survive in their system.

I personally am never one of those black women who put black men down, i understand the position they are in and i am always supportive, i've been out with dealers, as i understand they gotta make paper too, and they are out their trying.

I also want to add that certain black men need to get over the jealousy, many can't cope if their woman earns more, so many of my friends relationships have broken down.

The system is so clever i don't know how we can get out of it.

I EVEN HAVE THE HEART TO APPLAUD ARMSTRONG WILLIAMS EVEN THOUGH I CANNOT STAND TO LOOK AT OR HEAR HIM.

...Armstrong Williams main theme is that the Democratic Party has pimped out the black vote so much that we don't even look around to pay attention to what's going on anymore.

Do you remember the "first" Black president, not ONE PERSON in his cabnet was black.....not one........Mr. Williams (though I may not agrree with him)....has a point.

There is no BLACK PARTY.
Black need to be in EVERY party, in EVERY aspect of this country…from maids to military, from Wal-Mart to Wall Street, from the streets to the Government.

You will hear "Blacks don't belong there………" now from black then you will hear from white. OH how times have changed.

THE SELF MADE BLACK WOMAN YOU CANNOT SPEAK TO YOU CANNOT TELL HER ANYTHING OF WISDOM OR KNOWLEDGE SHE KNOWS IT ALL, SHE WANTS TO TELL YOU HOW YOU KNOW NOTHING JUST CAUSE SHE HAS A EDUCATION OF SOME SORT FOR SOMTHING. I APPRECIATE A SMART INTELLECTUAL WOMAN. BUT A HARD HEADED ONE.OH MY GOODNESS.

...black men have failed, do fail, and will fail black women. They havehad to pick up where we left off. They've had to get the education, they have had to fight, they have had to raise the children...all because of our inability to do so.

We dog them, we degrade, we treat them like property. The measure of a man is not how good he can treat his woman, but rather how many women he can screw. Its how we relate the to them its in our popular music...its not wonder they they have had to find for themselves.

We do all things things to them and NOW we have the nerve to complain about a strong woman.

And then comes the reasons....."the sytem"...."they are killing us"...ummm...."we can't get a leg up." WEAK.

NOw (and you are the one who said keep an open mind) it is not the Egypitians (Whites that are killing us)...is US that is killing US.....in America, and in AFrica. And what we do is blame it on whitey "Whitey made me kill that bruthat because he didn't give me a job"

HUH?

Are we so weak that we can not take control of our own destiny?

So since we failed as men, fail to lead the black community and since we've been made at white all this time.....and nothing has change, I suppose now its time to be mad at black women.

When I've said time and time again, if not for black women....we would be in much worse shape then we are now.

And that is the truth as I know it.

PaRrIs

So what if the women are getting paid? Yes some arefeisty but then somewomen who don'twork are even worse. Props to the women representing its better than claiming benefits. DON'T HATE, CONGRATULATE!!!

@Parris



I know at some point in ourlives on this forum you and I will come to blows,it hasnt happened yet,but its bound tobighairlol.and at least I know when it does happen you will have thought out what you say.



But re:your postin this thread.....

CAN THE CHURCH SAY AAAAMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Thank You.

1Man:

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BUT THE ONE THING THAT I CANNOT STAND IS THE SELF MADE BLACK WOMAN, THE ONLY THING WORSE THEN HER. IS A POWER HUNGRY WHITE MAN.
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Ha haa.....
Who do you think helped that black woman to make herself?

This myth of the "strong black woman" is one big joke because most of them didn't achieve their success one their own...

Although they went to school and worked hard, white men ALLOWED them to achieve their success by PROMOTING them over us to spite and shame us before the world.

It's interesting that in no other society in the world can you find the black woman elevated over the black man in status...except in America.

I don't see this in the Carribean, I don't see it in Africa, and I don't see it in Europe among black communities.
In those places the men in general are better educated and wealthier.


When I speak of elevation and these different roles, I'm not saying women are superior to men or men to women as far as HUMANITY is concerned.

But both sexes in the black communities of America have lost thier proper roles and function and now you have chaos.


I hate to say it but as long as we are in ANOTHER MAN'S HOUSE we will never be fully respected by our women and never be the men God made us to be.

Believe me my reading comprehension is first class andnowhere in any of your posts did I see an apology to me and further more I didnt do anything in the first place to warrant such incoherent vitriol from you.

And I mean it when I say keep your love,it is hollow,meaningless and without gravitas and I would sooner eat my own shit that be subjected to your brand of love.

Yours is the kind of love that would imply that someone was a whore because she is surrounded often my black men?keep it!!

Sisters form an orderly queue this ones a real catch,how have we let him get away.

And no I dont seek attention by responding to posts,I am defending myself against idiocy.

So dont respond to me,dont send me pm,s,dont e-mail because your love taints my very soul.



I would like to put forth this challenge to any of the LITERATE READERS and posters on on this forum,if you can re-read the posts on the Spinning teeth thread and see where I was so offensive to 1Man then I will stand corrected and apologize in the hugest font that this forum will allow............................................. .until that happens just leave me alone.Im sure there are some woman on the WOMENS FORUM you can pester.

1Man:
"FOR THIS MY BROTHER YOU GET QUOTE #2"


Quote #2???

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But in all seriousness....hey man I just call it like I see it and tell it like it is.

I advise you not to be too apologetic, you're not gonna change the thinking pattern of most of these people because they were born and raised in the MATRIARCHY.

A society in which we were trained to worship our women and mothers over our fathers.

A society where in America...most blacks have grown up knowing and respecting only thier mothers.

So quite naturally...they're gonna resist male authority.

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LADIES , LADIES

OH DEAR

so my mum got promoted by white man just to spite black man!

and here is me thinking because she studied and worked hardblkwonder

funny my dad does not have a problem with it, is it because he is secure in himself as a Black man.



oh well



when i graduate and start working if i get promoted over the black guy then i will turn the promotion down....................................NOT

LOL

hmmmmm

what is it exactly black men want us to do?

if we don't work= we are pigeons, if we work as checkout girl=we are not ambitious, if we study=you think you are better, if we choose to be stay at home mums=lazy if we get a good job= it is because to spite black man

well here is a brain stormer

black women are human beings that aspire to work hard and provide for their themselves and off spring just like any other human

simple really