Damn! Not without insulting, no.

Speaking honestly as a woman, i think we can sometimes be more uptight than men. Men are more used to being criticised and not being able to cry, whereas women are more insecure and blindly attack the slightest hint of criticism sometimes.

It is true that we love dishing out criticism on men, but when it is turned round we don't like it. And in a way you could argue MEN should be more annoyed at the penis size thread, as they are born this way and can't alter it, unless they go through expensive, painful surgery. Bar having kids, a woman causes herself to have a loose pussy, through many partners.

Well I for one noticed for a while that there was a long line of ridiculous threads arising.

AndI went ... hmmmmmmconfused3

first of i am a female, but i do think BP has a valid point. Y is it cool for me to not want to be with a man cos he has kids but not for a man to feel the same. The only real problem I had was with the poll, and the concept of a man thinking a woman is easy cos she has a child. this wrong and bad mind. Not all women with children are loose hoes, far, far from it!! At the end of the day if this really was the case, then y would a man go there- if he doesnt respect her, he should at least respect his tings, all sorts of nastyness could be gwarnin pun her undaneath!!

It was this element of your thread BP, which brought such defensive responses. At the end of the day, single parent families are an element of the black community. By suggesting that these 'baby mothers', who are single handedly bringing up the future of da black community, are playthings is disgusting, and just goes to show how hypicritcal the black man can be. Im sure some of the men voting in that pole come from single parent families, and if any1 dared to suggest their mother wa just a quick ting- bwoy all hell would break loose!!

Also the debate regarding tightness of the vagina, again was valid, but it turned into a free for all. It goes without saying that if a woman has a child she will loose some tightness, put with a few pelvic floor excerises- everting cool. And at a risk of sounding old fashioned, surely in an ideal world u would be having sex wit someone u cared about, hence if there were issues in the bedroom they could be discussed. Same should apply to a man with a 'small' penis and even an uncomfortably large one. Change position, lengthen the foreplay etc etc.

I agree with the person that said we as women are more defensive, but even you BP fall victim to this. I remember in the Black men thread where pictures of stunning men were posted, u deliberatly posting pics of HUGLY men. I assume you done this in jest. But If awoman had done this to the simialr thread of black women, wouldnt she have been accused of hating etc?

just a thought......

Bring back RunFromYourWife

you will faint if i unzip my pants, I ain't gonna allow you near it though.

Now this is funny!!!

You talking as if you don't know what I am talking about, you wish you could get close and play with it, I ain't letting,

it is for women, not girls like you. I don't deal with girls, I deal with women

You can start as much as you like, but you aint getting close...........no chance of you touching it.

Miss-Chieveous!

mad-moonie

stop with the foolishness

this is just silly, the consant arguing!! i would understand if it was thread related...but it aint. Petty name calling and unimaginative scenarios including barge polls, tongs, and inside of peeps knickers, arent needed. If two peeps want to play this game.... open your own thread-dont hijack someone elses

I REPEAT!!!!

this is just silly, the consant arguing!! i would understand if it was thread related...but it aint. Petty name calling and unimaginative scenarios including barge polls, tongs, and inside of peeps knickers, arent needed. If two peeps want to play this game.... open your own thread-dont hijack someone elses.

Futher more,if u do have a point related to the thread topic, articulating it in an adult fashion, and not in bright yellow font, (which screams attention seeker), would help. If ureally feel that there are threads here which you dont agree wit, start a thread addressing that in a non aggresive way. U will earn respect for it, even if people believe you are wrong, becauseu come @ it in an itteligent manner