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how forgiving are u?
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I could forgive almost anything except disloyalty.
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To me forgiveness is a foolish concept. What is it supposed to mean?
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17-07-05, 08:48 PM
bluehoney, to me disloyalty happens when -in a critical period ofa close trusting relationship with a person(when you depended on the criticalsupport of that that person)and they decide to put theirs or another personsinterests before yours, (and that decision both shocks anddamages you.... Seriously)
That decision, at that particular time,spells disloyalty.
Decision+Time =Loyalty or Disloyalty
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17-07-05, 08:51 PM
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bluehoney, to me disloyalty happens when -in a critical period ofa close trusting relationship with a person (when you depended on the criticalsupport of that that person )and they decide to put theirs or another personsinterests before yours, (and that decision both shocks anddamages you.... Seriously)
That decision, at that particular time,spells disloyalty.
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i feel u on that.....that is why i had to let many...many people go...lol
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Keep going. What anger?
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17-07-05, 08:58 PM
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Your definition said "To renounce anger or resentment against".
What anger and resentment are you talking of?
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that was a definition from a dictionary......
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to me...personally speaking...there is nothing to ever forgive..i take it like it comes to me....either i love it or let it go.... for others..theremight be....
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Your definition said "To renounce anger or resentment against".
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that was a definition from a dictionary......
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Well, I take it you quoted a dictionary definition that you understood and accepted, in which case it is also your definition of the word.So can you answer my question directly?
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to me...personally speaking...there is nothing to ever forgive..i take it like it comes to me....either i love it or let it go.... for others..theremight be....
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So how forgiving are you?
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that is the definition taken in by the majority...and back to the topic at hand...u answer the question....i asked...i did answer ur question...u must not have gotten the answer u sought...if u trying to pick....look elsewhere...blkfingerwag
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if u trying to pick....look elsewhere...blkfingerwag
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17-07-05, 09:18 PM
Blackmatta..you should know better than to argue with a lady. Especially pretty ones. lol
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17-07-05, 09:22 PM
never mind...aint even worth it...blkwonder
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Let me summarise, because you are clearly struggling.
Following the definition you gave, your thread boils down to -
How good are you at renouncing anger and resentment against ??? something.
Against what?
You even found your own question presumptuous - saying that it doesn't apply to you.
I am not trying to pick. I have picked. Successfully picked yourquestion to pieces. As I said initially, when youlook into it it is a foolish concept.
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i guess u told me huh...............
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my question still stands...how forgiving are u...thanks to the ones who already understood and answered...
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u still have not answered the question.........answer or hit the x
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