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17-08-05, 01:03 AM
at what point do you just say....to hell with something, someone or a situation...and let it go...give it up...throw in the towel..move on....because you have tried, given your best, but your best was not good enough this time...especially if the parties involved are giving less than their best...making excuses...thinks that you are blind to the untruths of the situation...self absorbed...and the situation has noreciprocation....  .................  do you just let it fade away into the nothingness in which it seems to be? give it a rest? collect your thoughts and come back for a second trywhich will probably leave you more confused?
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17-08-05, 01:06 AM
are you waiting to exhale?
dont give 100 % of you coz if you do wont have anything left to pick up the pieces and throwing the towel is when ever you feel like as it affects you and not anyone else
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17-08-05, 01:12 AM
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are you waiting to exhale?
dont give 100 % of you coz if you do wont have anything left to pick up the pieces and throwing the towel is when ever you feel like as it affects you and not anyone else
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giving 100% is not even the case...i only give that much of myself to myself...
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17-08-05, 01:20 AM
When you feel the other party or person does not put what you feel into consideration .best to fade away goodbyes aren't really the easiet thing to do never go back to what is not worth going back to move on theres 5 billion people out there 1 won't stop the show
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17-08-05, 01:30 AM
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When you feel the other party or person does not put what you feel into consideration .best to fade away goodbyes aren't really the easiet thing to do never go back to what is not worth going back to move on theres 5 billion people out there 1 won't stop the show
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noteven about1 person or 1 situation.....but believe me when i say...
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i feel/hear you...niceone.gifand no...one does not stop the show, never has, never will...
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17-08-05, 01:47 AM
ok....30 views and 2 replies....blkpainblkwall
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17-08-05, 02:25 AM
well, due to sensitivity of the thread some will avoid to coment and you have to understand that it has been caused mainly with this:
http://www.blackchat.co.uk/theblackf...3/14163-6.html
so i bet it might get really nasty and since the above link has broken relationships in this village I dont think it would be healthy for those left outside the war zone to start commenting unless they know what they are writing about
my recomendation to you is get yourself a book by IYANLA VANZANT called IN THE MEANTIME you probably might get something out of it
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17-08-05, 02:29 AM
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well, due to sensitivity of the thread some will avoid to coment and you have to understand that it has been caused mainly with this:
http://www.blackchat.co.uk/theblackf...3/14163-6.html
so i bet it might get really nasty and since the above link has broken relationships in this village I dont think it would be healthy for those left outside the war zone to start commenting unless they know what they are writing about
my recomendation to you is get yourself a book by IYANLA VANZANT called IN THE MEANTIME you probably might get something out of it
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you areare completely taking this out of context....i simply asked a question for ((opinions))...not advice...as i know how to handle situations in my life....thank you though...i honesty don't think you should have taken context from another thread and compared it to this one....don't mix my thoughts up with the hatefulness of others from the past...by referring to another thread which is completelynot like the other...takes the current one off topic...thx again..
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17-08-05, 02:34 AM
oppps
my bad
I am officially out of this one
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17-08-05, 02:36 AM
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my bad
I am officially out of this one
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u can comment...just don't speak for others...only for self..
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17-08-05, 12:17 PM
Its best to walk away from such people its hard at first as time goes on it will be just a memory in the back of your head.Find something to keep you occupied and soemthing to better yourself if you are in school study harder take up a sport or learn to play an instrument .One thing i learnt through experience apart from your family you don't really need anyone unless they realy care and respect you. The best thing to do and better yourself in time they will notice what they let slip through their nets
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17-08-05, 12:37 PM
You must first learn how to work away in all situations, before you start gettingwith someone, or something. Never, never get, so close to.......that working away my not be an option for U in later time. Throw the towel when ever U see it fit, don't wait till you become a TOWEL.
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17-08-05, 03:46 PM
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Its best to walk away from such people its hard at first as time goes on it will be just a memory in the back of your head.Find something to keep you occupied and soemthing to better yourself if you are in school study harder take up a sport or learn to play an instrument .One thing i learnt through experience apart from your family you don't really need anyone unless they realy care and respect you. The best thing to do and better yourself in time they will notice what they let slip through their nets
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what if family members are apart of the problem in addition to people who are not family members?
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