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20-08-05, 02:05 PM
do you hold grudges well??
if so whats the longest youve plotted, schemed, prayed to see your enemies crushed/humiliatated beneath your devilish plans??
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Location: Hathersage, Derbyshire
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20-08-05, 02:24 PM
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do you hold grudges well??
if so whats the longest youve plotted, schemed, prayed to see your enemies crushed/humiliatated beneath your devilish plans??
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Nope, not outside playing sport anyway, no point. I've noticed that fate seems dish things out in an exacting fashion.
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People get what they deserve, I don't need to waste my time playing with other people's destinies. Better tospend the time improving my own, holding grudges is most certainly the last way to do that.
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Make fate your friend and not your enemy.
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20-08-05, 02:34 PM
I don't necessarily hold grudges, but I keep my distance from those I know seek to harm me.
Am I my brother\'s keeper?
YES I AM
.....(Nino Brown)
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Location: jacksonville, Florida, USA
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22-08-05, 06:06 PM
I don't really hold grudges, however, I never really look at the person the same way again. Ever! Even someone pissed me off, I never look at them the same way. Reason being is because I'm a very loyal person to people I consider my friends. Therefore if you betray me or piss me off for whatever reason...
Fredo. You\'re my brother and I love you. But don\'t ever take sides against the family again. Ever!
Michael Corleone
(The Godfather)
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Location: London, , United Kingdom
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22-08-05, 06:33 PM
I used to hold grudges during most of secondary school, but I realised it's wasted energy. If I don't like someone, I can't fake it. I simply stop talking to them, or keep it to small talk. I don't hold grudges, I laugh at those who hold grudges against me. There's one girl that still attempts to "belittle" me every time she sees me, u know, the usual cutting eye, or s******ing with a friend. I think it's funny that she thinks about me so much lol. If I don't like someone, or they don't like me for whatever reason, fair enough, I would respect them more for coming up to me and telling me exactly why they don't like me, rather than hold a grudge against me. I just go bout my business, not everyone's going to get on in life, and I'm not going to let it affect me, Ihaven't got time for grudges
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Location: , Wisconsin, USA
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23-08-05, 03:37 AM
FOREVER
Just hope I don't find a way to get revenge.
blkdevillol
umbrarchist
ps - Mars in Scorpio, Moon in Scorpio
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Colorado Springs, Colorado, USA
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23-08-05, 04:45 AM
Na ...life is much to short to hold grudges. Besides whatgoes around usually comes around. I'm more of a peaceful laid back person.
African American/Egyptian by blood, proud by choice!
Restrain your desires,control your speech,
Then your position will be among the wise.
<Percepts of Ptah-Hotep>
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23-08-05, 05:16 PM
Yes! I do hold grudges, BUT!! only if its clear that you are wrong. Meaning it wont be only me that can see you didsomething wrong. Alsodepending on what you did and how severe ,then yes I will hold it against you until you can understand that what you did was wrong and wasn't fair or until they'd be ready to sit and talk about it withsome brew, and just apologize for whatever.
Even though I know every thing will have to come full circle and what goes around comes around I still some times hold a grudge towardsome just notso intensely.Soon enough I'll forget what I wasgrudging you for.
Isthis a scorpio's knowntrait?
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Location: london over la westside, , United Kingdom
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28-08-05, 06:12 PM
i held a grudge against a group of girls in my year that held great joy in spreading a rumour round our year about me
i stopped now (afta 4 months) cos it got to the point wen i was havin dreams bout beating the girl up on results day lol..but we spoke on results day which was weird.... *trails off*
tru lifes 2 short to hold a grudge. u mite wana say sori one day n neva get round to it. confused3
$tar
*dark $tar*
**(: single black female; addicted to retail  **
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