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16-10-05, 08:58 PM
this is just one womans opinion/experience....
nobody can make another happy if one does not want to be or seek happiness...one can inspire another, but true happiness comes from within...
i have very few people who inspire me...and i tell them, hoping that it will bring thema little bit of joy to know that they are inspirational to me &i appreciate them for making a difference inmy life even ifhe/she was not trying to....no good deed or charactergoes unnoticed...
i have been with/around people were just plain unhappy and verbalizes/externalizes it every chance they got...the longer know them, the more i cant be around them...so i just let it fade out...
i know some peoplewho never say they are unhappy, but i can feel/sense it..but they still have some type of faith that they will feel better soon....so i try to remain a friend and hope that we can work through it together...
but someone who just stews in it (unhappiness)....hell no...gotta run from them...
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would you date someone who told you they had never really ever been happy in life?
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Never. I could excuse a fair amount ofundesirablecharacters/attitudes ... but if there is one sureHELL NO, no second chance, never,everthenthis is it.
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Ican't deal with them, don't know how to and even if i did i wouldn't want to. It's no joke when people say this type of people sack the life out of everyone... gzzzz do they suck life out of people shsh.
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I am lucky i can spotthis peopleeven when they trying to disguise themselves asnicely put together, smiley, chatty and happy happy... gives me a chance to withdraw before i get too close to them and so far they have all turned out to be miserable sods.
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16-10-05, 10:39 PM
Some people don't even have to say it. You can sense the negative energy. Some pretend to be happy focusing on their accomplishments, accolades, and social life, but inside they're miserable and can be just as draining because they feel your energy and are jealous of it, so the seek ways to take it away from you. Sometimes you have to hide your happiness the way some people hide their misery, because they conciously or unconsiously want to drain you of it. Depends on the situation. I always try to somehowadd value to someone I dated or had relations with in hopes that they will be a better person after they have dealt with me(whether they were happy or not). Luckily Istill have a good rapporwith all my ex's(even the negative ones).
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16-10-05, 10:43 PM
Oi dude why are you posting same time as me?
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16-10-05, 10:53 PM
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Oi dude why are you posting same time as me?
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you forgot yougave me your password remember.. remember those days when we had each other's passwords.. you didn't change it... blktype
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that is kinda funny though..
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16-10-05, 10:58 PM
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Oi dude why are you posting same time as me?
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you forgot yougave me your password remember.. remember those days when we had each other's passwords.. you didn't change it... blktype
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So you use my password to post as yourself???:?
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that is kinda funny though..
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16-10-05, 11:11 PM
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Oi dude why are you posting same time as me?
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you forgot yougave me your password remember.. remember those days when we had each other's passwords.. you didn't change it... blktype
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So you use my password to post as yourself???:?
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that is kinda funny though..
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Anyway babeshow are you doing?
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LOL I'm fine sweets, how are u at this late hour(in London)?
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I am cool, just catching up with BN before i hit the sack ready for plantationtomorrow. Anyway my good sir before BM kills us for going off topic i bid you goodnight.
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16-10-05, 11:48 PM
U dutty gal !
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17-10-05, 12:54 AM
But would you date someone who told you they had never really ever been happy in life?
Yes, I find that really sexy
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17-10-05, 01:29 AM
Funny, I would date a man llike that. There is something dark and sexy about men like that. As long as he is not the clingy, weepy, whinny, 'life is so unfair','I have never been happy' type. Cannot deal with optimists, who are always happy. I find them extremely annoying.
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