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Apparently I'm quite an intimidating bloke - I'm also a bit of a perfectionsist so some people feel scared of getting things wrong around me - my son brings this home to me quite clearly....and there's me thinking I was normal
Well, I think the fact that I'm borderline antisocial, is what makes me different. I've always been a bit of a loner. I don't like crowds and so have always just kept a small selective group of close friends. I never had any desire to be the most popular person in high school or elementary school so I never felt any pressure to conform to anyone's standards. I went to the mall by myself when most of my friends wouldn't dare to be seen there alone during that stage of their lives. I'll go to the theatreand watcha movieby myself if the people around me are not interested in seeing it. And up till this day my view of a good new year's eve is reading a really goodbook while in my bed and drinking a glass ofChardonnay.
Because of this tendency I've developed adisliketowards clingy people. I spentmost of my first two years of university trying to hide from my roommate in first year becausesheinsisted on spending every waking moment with me.I also had many arguments with my ex.due this insistence that we do any and everything together.
Gosh,if I keep this upI'll end up in smallcottage somewhere inno-man's landwith no one but mycomputer, books and wine. LOL.The sad thing is that Ithink I'd actually enjoy it.
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You sound exactly like me!! its weird, I like my own company dont like to be around too many people have never had a serious relationship cos I dont think I could take someone being in my space callin me all the time etc. I go to the cinema on my own if you waited for other people to do things you would never do anything, also never go shoppin with other people too much hassle as you feel like you are keepin someone waiting. Dont worry this is the year for loners!
We all self concious, Im just the first to admit it...
To know nothing is bad, to learn nothing is worse.
Your inner thoughts can cause you to be rich or poor, loved or unloved, happy or unhappy, attractive or unattractive, powerful or weak.
6 billion odd people on the planet and i'm the only me there is or ever will be. That makes me pretty different. makes everybody different. Even identical siblings have different personalities.
People who feel the need to state that they are different are generally the ones who believe that they do not follow herd mentality. In that respect, i guess i am different in some aspects of who i am.
YOU ARE NOT DEFINED BY OTHER PEOPLES\' OPINION OF YOU!! ;0)
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