In most societies where it promotes monogamy and there are laws against polygamy those societies are based on fantansy, lies, dishonesty. In a monogamy relationship where they say honesty is the number one thing its dishonest from the beginning. Honesty has to be payed more attention to in order to catch up to itself. The man is dishonest with himself and its partner more times than not when he says he will never cheat or committ adultry. How is this known that adultry wont happen when most monogomy relationships end in divorce for those type of reasons mostly. Its not totally the mans fault thought. Its todays societies. People must get out of the fantansies that rule their lives most of day.