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28-03-06, 11:32 PM
Just a thought.. inspiredfromanother forum
What would you do if you was to find out that your Dad is cheating on your mum?
Would you tell your mum... or vice versa
What will you do?
Since its poll week, I think this one deserves a poll.. so I'll pop one there for thosethat feel to...
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28-03-06, 11:34 PM
That was fast... care to give reasons
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Because what occurs in my parents relationstionship is between them, and for them to sort out...simple
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But what if the other one doesn't know?
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Tough question.
What i would do is beat my Dad up if it was him and disown my Mother if it was her.
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28-03-06, 11:47 PM
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its not my business, i keep out
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its not my business, i keep out
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29-03-06, 12:04 AM
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It will be if they both of them know of it... but supposen they don't
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29-03-06, 06:58 AM
use it as leverage to get a psp, then tell the other parent anyway( indirectly)
You ever heard of the Golden Rule. He who has the gold makes the rules!
He who asks is a fool for five minutes. He who never asks remains a fool for ever.
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why are there only two options, what happened to ''dont know''confused3
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29-03-06, 08:22 AM
my sister was in this situation way back in the day. She was about 14, I was about 9 and my oldest sister was about 19. My dad was just a horrible, nasty piece of work. One day she was rifling my dads pockets for money (as you do!!) when she came across a letter from another woman. Of course she told my mum. Turns out the affair had been going on fora while. She even used to meet him at his cousins house. The same cousin who would come to OUR house, eat my mums cooking and smile in her face!! Anyway, one day my mum found one of her letters and wrote her one back telling her she could have my dad and to tek 'im!! wasn't long after that, that he left my mum for her. Best day in ALL our lives when we saw that cab pulling off!! To this day i would like to meet that woman and shake her hand!!
The point is, sometimes keeping quiet is not always the best thing. it isn't to be assumed that anyone will be happier with the continuing situation. People who have crappy relationships but stay together "for the sake of the kids" are kidding themselves. Alot of times the kids would be happier if they were seperated.
YOU ARE NOT DEFINED BY OTHER PEOPLES\' OPINION OF YOU!! ;0)
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