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View Poll Results: If you find out one of your parent is cheating on another
Would you tell the other Parent? 5 71.43%
Would you not tell? 2 28.57%
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Just a thought.. inspiredfromanother forum

What would you do if you was to find out that your Dad is cheating on your mum?

Would you tell your mum... or vice versa

What will you do?

Since its poll week, I think this one deserves a poll.. so I'll pop one there for thosethat feel to...


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Post imported post - 28-03-06, 11:33 PM

No....


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That was fast... care to give reasons


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Post imported post - 28-03-06, 11:36 PM

Because what occurs in my parents relationstionship is between them, and for them to sort out...simple


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But what if the other one doesn't know?


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Post imported post - 28-03-06, 11:40 PM

Tough question.

What i would do is beat my Dad up if it was him and disown my Mother if it was her.


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Depends....


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its not my business, i keep out
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its not my business, i keep out
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Well hypethically speaking, they are together married... there really hasn't been anything to raised doubts...
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And one time you caught your Mum kissing another guy? or you saw you dad out of town kissing some woman..
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It will be if they both of them know of it... but supposen they don't
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Like lemoor, I wouldn't know what to do myself..


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Post imported post - 29-03-06, 06:58 AM

use it as leverage to get a psp, then tell the other parent anyway( indirectly)


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Post imported post - 29-03-06, 08:16 AM

why are there only two options, what happened to ''dont know''confused3

@cashmoney, please tell me that was a joke.
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my sister was in this situation way back in the day. She was about 14, I was about 9 and my oldest sister was about 19. My dad was just a horrible, nasty piece of work. One day she was rifling my dads pockets for money (as you do!!) when she came across a letter from another woman. Of course she told my mum. Turns out the affair had been going on fora while. She even used to meet him at his cousins house. The same cousin who would come to OUR house, eat my mums cooking and smile in her face!! Anyway, one day my mum found one of her letters and wrote her one back telling her she could have my dad and to tek 'im!! wasn't long after that, that he left my mum for her. Best day in ALL our lives when we saw that cab pulling off!! To this day i would like to meet that woman and shake her hand!!

The point is, sometimes keeping quiet is not always the best thing. it isn't to be assumed that anyone will be happier with the continuing situation. People who have crappy relationships but stay together "for the sake of the kids" are kidding themselves. Alot of times the kids would be happier if they were seperated.


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