why dont we show each other more respect here on BV?

NativeTongue · (#1 (**permalink**))

why does every other thread seem to degenerate into slanging match?

its like being in a School Playground.

arent we the adults? we really should be doing better.confused3

Saida.M · (#2 (**permalink**))

Examples NT?

NativeTongue · (#3 (**permalink**))

well heres a few off the first page.

http://www.blackchat.co.uk/theblackf...9/21322-2.html

http://www.blackchat.co.uk/theblackf...um4/21408.html

http://www.blackchat.co.uk/theblackf...um9/21223.html

NativeTongue · (#4 (**permalink**))

sorry BP posted the wrong link, check the new link (ironically you might recognise that one, lol.)

nah i dont need protection, this is the internet.

i do think we can have a more interesting level of debate on the boards though, rather than the tedious ''ad hominems''.

NativeTongue · (#5 (**permalink**))

yeah but it gets tedious after awhile BP i dont want to have to wade through all that crap to read something interesting.

Anyway maybe thats just me.

jett Black · (#6 (**permalink**))

Well NT,respect is EARNED,not automatically granted.

I never step to anyone FIRST without provocation and if you are a person of delicate ,fragile sensibilities then Blacknet is not the place for you.

In my mind this place is for warriors and warriors in training and if one can't handle a piffling internet exchange without having a nervous breakdown,then I would suggest that Planet Earth isnt even the place for you,your ass is gonna get trounced(and when I say "you" I am speaking in general terms which I hope is clear).

I have the most respect for people who fight their corner out in public,not cower behind the safety of PM's.

NativeTongue · (#7 (**permalink**))

fair enough JB.oh and can i just add your one of my favourite posters on BNV, and i always look out for your posts.

Saida.M · (#8 (**permalink**))

Hi NT OK first up I must say that I only know of the Coltrane leaving thread and out of all the threads you posted,the middle one seem to be the worst.

But if you ever have a problem with a thread and you think they get out of hand just pm one of us mods and we'll mointor them for you. Because as I saidI was not even aware of two of the threads mentioned!

OK now that's said I would like to point out obvious stuff and say that the people who make up these boards are human beings so I'm sure you know that this is how human people stay: we fuss, we misunderstand,we argue, and we love -just likeone big happy family lol!

We have just got to accept it and not let it worry us so.

jett Black · (#9 (**permalink**))

NativeTongue wrote:

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fair enough JB.oh and can i just add your one of my favourite posters on BNV, and i always look out for your posts.

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Why thank you NT*takes bow*,i'm not opposed to a little bit of flattery every now and then.

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But the fact remains that I am NOT here to make enemies,i'm here to learn from others and to also put my point of view across and fair enough if a NEW member comes across something I write and maybe takes offence,but most othersshould beused to my slightly acid style by now,so there's no excuse for the histrionics.

Lady Aleisha · (#10 (**permalink**))

why is that when someone has a differnce of opinion, they are referred to as a troll. it makes things more interesting if we have lots of different views. So i can see what the starter of the topic means.

Saida.M · (#11 (**permalink**))

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think about it this way.... chris rocks bi-racial baby is hardly something to write home about... thats probably why people just sh*t over that thread..that chick (BBC) just dragged it out trying to defend herself instad of letting it die a sad death..

the sadthing is all the beefs is why they will never be a large scxale BV meet...only lil gropus of close friends...cos people dig such a large hole for themselves they cant show up...me not included that is

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I'm not here to fuss nor fight BP, (unless pushed lol), but I don't think anyone can claim to be totally virtuous in that thread.

jett Black · (#12 (**permalink**))

athaba wrote:

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Black_power wrote:

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athaba

think about it this way.... chris rocks bi-racial baby is hardly something to write home about... thats probably why people just sh*t over that thread..that chick (BBC) just dragged it out trying to defend herself instad of letting it die a sad death..

the sadthing is all the beefs is why they will never be a large scxale BV meet...only lil gropus of close friends...cos people dig such a large hole for themselves they cant show up...me not included that is

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I'm not here to fuss nor fight BP, (unless pushed lol), but I don't think anyone can claim to be totally virtuous in that thread.

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Errrm,I beg to differ.I responded to a thread and then someone took offence to the manner.

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"Don't start no stuff,won't be no stuff"