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Bill Cosby held nothing back during his speech Sunday to the graduating class of Spelman College, an historically black college for women nestled in Atlanta, GA.


"You have to know that it is time for you all to take charge," Cosby said. "You have to seriously see yourselves not as the old women where the men stood in front and you all stood behind, because the men, most of them are in prison."


Added Cosby: "It is time for you to pick up the pace and lead because the men are not there. They're not there and every one of you young women know it.�

When one of the 500 members of the graduating class accepted her diploma, Cosby said, "there's no time for you to fool around anymore. …You've got to [get serious] because our race depends upon you and your sisters graduating all across the United States to realize that what's left is you."

Cosby, 68, said he realized that part of his speech would not go over well among many in the audience.

"I'm going to speak to these young women about taking charge and I know it's going to be fearful and it's going to tweak a lot of things," he told The Associated Press in an interview before the ceremony. "They have to because it's in their lives and it's real. It is there. They are going to be needed to protect the legacy that is good."


Cosby told the graduates that the same male students who are dropping out of high school "have memorized the lyrics of very difficult rap songs. …And they know how to send their sperm cells out and then walk away from the responsibility of something called fatherhood."

Cosby said his comments were not directed to all black males, but noted that 70 percent of black graduates this year are female.

"Who's running the show?" Cosby asked. "It appears that the male is, but I have news for you. It's your turn. We want you to lead in business. We want you to lead in medicine. We want you to lead in everything."


In 1987 Cosby and his wife, Camille, gave a $20 million gift to Spelman, which is celebrating its 125th anniversary this year. The Camille Olivia Hanks Cosby Academic Center on the campus opened in 1996.
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What the hell does he think we have been doing for the last couple of centuries???

I love when Cosby starts flapping his gums and swears he's saying something new and revolutionary.

I give the man props for his achievments and contributions but he is slowly morphing into the crazy old Uncle noone wants to invite round to dinner.


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I dont think he sees himself as saying anything new and revolutionary, hes just trying to awaken the Black American populace who has seemed to fall asleep, lulled by materialism and popular media while the REST of the world is moving on.
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It's fine and dandy for Bill Cosby to try and uplift black women but why doesn't he spend time advicing those who really need it. Shouldn't he as a black man try to uplift these "failing"males instead of further bringing their esteem down by practically calling them useless? And instead od preaching to a bunch of women who have already "made" it, perhaps he should be advicing those who are in danger of becoming sperm deposits for the men with no intentions of taking care of their children. I think he's letting his frustrations get the better of him.
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It's fine and dandy for Bill Cosby to try and uplift black women but why doesn't he spend time advicing those who really need it. Shouldn't he as a black man try to uplift these "failing"males instead of further bringing their esteem down by practically calling them useless? And instead od preaching to a bunch of women who have already "made" it, perhaps he should be advicing those who are in danger of becoming sperm deposits for the men with no intentions of taking care of their children. I think he's letting his frustrations get the better of him.
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It's fine and dandy for Bill Cosby to try and uplift black women but why doesn't he spend time advicing those who really need it. Shouldn't he as a black man try to uplift these "failing"males instead of further bringing their esteem down by practically calling them useless? And instead od preaching to a bunch of women who have already "made" it, perhaps he should be advicing those who are in danger of becoming sperm deposits for the men with no intentions of taking care of their children. I think he's letting his frustrations get the better of him.

You really have no idea of the ignorance in the AA male do you? LOL Ask the AA men on here how hard it is too drill common sense into 1/2 of the AA men.

Books to them is like sunshine to a vampire........I really think that you ladies OVERESTIMATE some of these guys........
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It's fine and dandy for Bill Cosby to try and uplift black women but why doesn't he spend time advicing those who really need it. Shouldn't he as a black man try to uplift these "failing"males instead of further bringing their esteem down by practically calling them useless? And instead od preaching to a bunch of women who have already "made" it, perhaps he should be advicing those who are in danger of becoming sperm deposits for the men with no intentions of taking care of their children. I think he's letting his frustrations get the better of him.

You really have no idea of the ignorance in the AA male do you? LOL Ask the AA men on here how hard it is too drill common sense into 1/2 of the AA men.

Books to them is like sunshine to a vampire........I really think that you ladies OVERESTIMATE some of these guys........


If they dont live here in the states they wont understand.
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It's fine and dandy for Bill Cosby to try and uplift black women but why doesn't he spend time advicing those who really need it. Shouldn't he as a black man try to uplift these "failing"males instead of further bringing their esteem down by practically calling them useless? And instead od preaching to a bunch of women who have already "made" it, perhaps he should be advicing those who are in danger of becoming sperm deposits for the men with no intentions of taking care of their children. I think he's letting his frustrations get the better of him.
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Thank you! That's just common sense.
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I think ole Bill needs to realise the factthat he simpky isn't relevant to this young generation anyway. When he feels the need to launch into attack mode just to make a point, he simply makes matters worse.
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You can't even call his worthless tirades 'tough love' because he sounds as if he's full of pure bitterness and spite. In fact the way he brutally chastises African men to an AA female audience is reminiscent of those insecure bluefoot males who love to put down African men while at the same time "gassing up" (to use an American slang expression) African women just to score brownie points with them.


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So folks think the message needs to be sugar coated and delivered by JZ or Nas to be creditable.

This is funny.

The TRUTH is the TRUTH regardless of it origin or intention.

I hope the sister in America DO stand up stronger and take a greatrer leadership role and at the SAME time stop giving useless males sex so they can be left to raise children alone and in economic disadvantage.

Its ashamed that 70% of Black American children are born to single parnet homes.

Its ashamed that 70% of Black college graduates are women.

Maybe some day the brothers will put down the XBox, put out the blunt, pull up their pants and take the first steps into MANHOOD and make our sisters proud once again.
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So folks think the message needs to be sugar coated and delivered by JZ or Nas to be creditable.

This is funny.

The TRUTH is the TRUTH regardless of it origin or intention.

I hope the sister in America DO stand up stronger and take a greatrer leadership role and at the SAME time stop giving useless males sex so they can be left to raise children alone and in economic disadvantage.

Its ashamed that 70% of Black American children are born to single parnet homes.

Its ashamed that 70% of Black college graduates are women.

Maybe some day the brothers will put down the XBox, put out the blunt, pull up their pants and take the first steps into MANHOOD and make our sisters proud once again.
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I think Cos is on a mission. I noticed the same thing with Farrakhan. I think as people get to the end of their lives(if their blessed to live long lives), they get this I don't give a phuck , I"m going to tell it like it is thing about them. They have no reason to sugarcoat or mince words anymore(what can anyone do to them?). I don't think they're feel they're necessarily saying anything new or revolutionary, I think they just feel more urgency about saying it. Farrakhan said a couple of years ago, it's hard taking that walk towards old age and death, if you feel like your family and your people are not prepared to take care of business, or are heading backwards, rather than progressing. He said, it's much easier to facedeathwhen you know your folks are straight and will be alright.




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I don't see the point of this latest speech though. Why ask women to do what they're already doing? How can he show stats saying women are bearing the load... while asking women to bear the load?confused3


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