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This woman's father believes she went 'down hill' after she met THAT black man.

"She lived for clubbing. Her weekends were spent at these all-night raves all over London and she would travel up and down the country as well, dressed up to the nines.

If there were boyfriends during this time none of them was serious - except possibly the one with whom, her father said, Sarah had fallen in love with. 'I think she did have one white English chap she was very keen on years ago,' he said. 'He broke her heart, although I don't know the details.'

Perhaps if Porters life had if that relationship had worked out, then Porter's life might have taken a very different path. As it was, by the end of the Nineties she had become involved with a married man of Afro-Carribean descent...

(source Daily Mail 24/06/2006)

You can't get much more blatant than that - black men, the cause of her misery. I still have problem because where's the proof THIS black man gave her the HIV virus?

Isn't amazing how people like her can mix in with the crowd but still want to do you damage. With so much vengance against black men she is simply notsuitable to be neara black child.


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I really cannot believe what I'm hearing/reading. First of all, she isn't a fit mother. Last time I checked mental abuse was as damaging if not more than some forms of physical abuse. I believe that what she did was a racist act. The newspaper article stated that she had a bad relationship with a white man and dealt with only black men after that. Correct me if I'm wrong. So like at least 75% of white women out there she chose to sleep with ONLY black men. Catches HIV, a result of promiscuity not hatred (didn't her dad say she was out raving every weekend "dressed to the nines"). I don't wanna make assumptions but we've all seen or know these type of white women. Now the MEDIA, who are notorious for painting black people in the poorest light possible, havestated that she was infected by a black man and thusbegan a sick vendetta againstall black men. Her son, whetherwe like it or not isrecognised as black and will growinto a black man, the object of his mothers sickAND criminalacts. Is this not mental abuse? To know that your mother hated black men this muchthat she'd go to these extreme lengths to hurt them. Social services should see to it that she has no contactwith him while he is still a minor. If he wants to look for her when he is 18 and old enough to make his decisions then so be it.

Can I also just voice my concerns for my black women out there.Black men are known for theirfidelity, so how many of this sick bitches victims were also involved with black women, or hadintercourse with other white women who slept with other balck men, that also sleep with black women. It is one hell of a vicious circle and my head hurts just thinking about it. How many black women are yet again paying for the sins of a black man?
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As pertaining to the thread, yes i feel that this child should be taken out of the mother hands as her behavior was irresposible and life threatening. Many times I absolutelyfind it very sad to seemixed children exclusively in the care of whites because some of the incidents i have heard about it is really heart breaking. A womanI used to knowtold me of how a black friend of hers knocked up some whitetrailer trashand left her with his son. The son, from birth till five was subjected to the most horrendous abuse by her white boyfriend who used to abuse the child because he was half black. He did all kinds of horrible thing to the kid. Both he andthe mother sexually abused him as well. The kid was eventually taken out of their custody and placed with the black father, but from what i have heard he still has behavioral issues. .
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That is so sad Liberian Girl. That nearly bought a tear to my eye, to hear something as such and as cruel as that. Mixed folks do go through those kind of things sometimes, and thats why I could never so cold heartedly turn around and just say "No your not black... blah blah this, bla blah that" ...... it's wrong. That child would of been no more than just a 'Ni**er' in that step dads eyes. Breaks my heart knowing that someone could abuse a child at that age in their life.
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... the matter is being discussed on BBC London's phone-in now ...
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Hmmm it seems that Amina Taylor and Doton have grown a new set of balls tonight...will this appease MGL i wonder?


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@ Lady Vee,

No you shouldn't reget your nephew because he is mixed race. But at the same time neitheryou nor the black race are responsible for the way he has turned out, that is his own mother's fault. Mixed race people do not need to embrace only one identity to have a sense of self. For most of them knowing that they are mixed race and neither white nor black is enough. I know two mixed race girls who are the perfect example of this. Their parents raised them to think of themselves as mixed race, not black or white. Yes they have gotten flack from white people, especially as they moved to racist Alberta when they first cameto Canada, but none of that has had any long lasting effects on their sense of self. They can tell you all there is to know about Nigeria, where their father is from, and inanotherbreath talk about Slovakia, where their mother is from. It's not easy to do but it can be done, it all depends on how the parents decide to raise their mixed children.

And that being said, blackpeople experience racism too, yet when we go through ityou don't seeanyone opening up their racial umbrella to embrace us. So why is it that such a tragedy for black people to not view mixed people as black just because white people will not accept them. If society would let them form their own separate identity there would be no need for all of this confusion.

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Now to get back on topic, if that woman is notactually inflictingharm on her child, then there isn't much that the government can do. Yes what she did was inhumane and she should be severily punished for it, butthere are far worst parents out there whoareable to keep their children. Ivolunteer for the Children's Aid Society from time to time and I have seencrack head, alcohol abusing parentsbeingallowedto keep their children.Many of these organizationsworkunder themandate of keeping families togetherand only whenthe situation isdeemed ashopeless will they consider keeping the childuntil adulthood. Most of the time they just get the parent and child some counseling,set upother forms of support they may need then send the child back to the parent.

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This woman's father believes she went 'down hill' after she met THAT black man.

"She lived for clubbing. Her weekends were spent at these all-night raves all over London and she would travel up and down the country as well, dressed up to the nines.

If there were boyfriends during this time none of them was serious - except possibly the one with whom, her father said, Sarah had fallen in love with. 'I think she did have one white English chap she was very keen on years ago,' he said. 'He broke her heart, although I don't know the details.'

Perhaps if Porters life had if that relationship had worked out, then Porter's life might have taken a very different path. As it was, by the end of the Nineties she had become involved with a married man of Afro-Carribean descent...

(source Daily Mail 24/06/2006)

You can't get much more blatant than that - black men, the cause of her misery. I still have problem because where's the proof THIS black man gave her the HIV virus?

Isn't amazing how people like her can mix in with the crowd but still want to do you damage. With so much vengance against black men she is simply notsuitable to be neara black child.
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i think her father has inadvertently said that white men were the cause of her misery if you think about it:
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"If there were boyfriends during this time none of them was serious - except possibly the one with whom, her father said, Sarah had fallen in love with. 'I think she did have one white English chap she was very keen on years ago,' he said. He broke her heart, although I don't know the details."
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now that tome this sort of looks likethis woman was damaged by a white man. she turned to black men in the first place probably out of a sexual fetish rather than just genuinely connecting with certain men who happened to be black. getting burnt by the white guy turned her into a freak and then getting the HIV just tipped her over the edge into a crazy freak.
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you could look at this and say yes she is racist or she would have carried out her vendetta against all men to get back at the white ones who have rejected her and broke her heart and the black one who gave her HIV.
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when i first heard this story i was a bit sceptical, i thought maybe she is a woman who normally sleeps with black guys exclusively. there are many white women like that. she then contracts HIV from one of them... and continues to sleep with black guys exclusively. looked at like that, then why would she be racist for continuing to have sex with men of a 'type' she has always enjoyed sex with? wicked yes because she knew she had the virus but i wouldnt necessarily call it racist the fact she only had sex with black men after she found she was positive. why would she suddenly change habits and either go back to white men who it seems she swore off after getting her heart broken, OR stop having sex altogether in the carefree, random way she obviously used to operate in before she was diagnosed?
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if she did do this simply because she was full of hate for black guys or just because she is a wicked bitch then she's obviously a very twisted person either way. probably not likely to make a brilliant parent if she can be that cold, but if her lawyer was telling the truth and she was not being malicious...then maybe as a mother she is different andcan begenuinely caring towards her son. i havent read the whole thread so dont know what others have said, but i do wonder where her son was while she was raving everyweekend up and down the country.confused3
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i think her father has inadvertently said that white men were the cause of her misery if you think about it:
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"If there were boyfriends during this time none of them was serious - except possibly the one with whom, her father said, Sarah had fallen in love with. 'I think she did have one white English chap she was very keen on years ago,' he said. He broke her heart, although I don't know the details."
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now that tome this sort of looks likethis woman was damaged by a white man. she turned to black men in the first place probably out of a sexual fetish rather than just genuinely connecting with certain men who happened to be black. getting burnt by the white guy turned her into a freak and then getting the HIV just tipped her over the edge into a crazy freak.
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you could look at this and say yes she is racist or she would have carried out her vendetta against all men to get back at the white ones who have rejected her and broke her heart and the black one who gave her HIV.
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when i first heard this story i was a bit sceptical, i thought maybe she is a woman who normally sleeps with black guys exclusively. there are many white women like that. she then contracts HIV from one of them... and continues to sleep with black guys exclusively. looked at like that, then why would she be racist for continuing to have sex with men of a 'type' she has always enjoyed sex with? wicked yes because she knew she had the virus but i wouldnt necessarily call it racist the fact she only had sex with black men after she found she was positive. why would she suddenly change habits and either go back to white men who it seems she swore off after getting her heart broken, OR stop having sex altogether in the carefree, random way she obviously used to operate in before she was diagnosed?
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if she did do this simply because she was full of hate for black guys or just because she is a wicked b**ch then she's obviously a very twisted person either way. confused3
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Just to expand on the story a bit, the Daily Mail claim she came from a fairly well to do family in North London but during the rave scene of the 80's and 90's she began mixing with people her parents did not approve of, but she had already left home by that time.
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The article claims she slept mostly with black men but there were some white men she went with too...obviously she was well known around the clubbing scene. She was probably one of these women that's always running downthe DJ for a piece
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The way I read the article was thatafter the white guy dumped her she continued to see black guys but she hadn't yet met the man who was 'supposed' to have given her HIV. It was only after this happened that she went on her spree of deliberately spreading HIV black men. I couldn't see anything that said she slept with white guys after she contrcated the virus.
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I really hate howthe white media has been trying to paint her as some kind of a victim. If she's going to go slutting around, having unprotected sex with every guy she meets, then who's fault is it that she contracted AIDS?It's irrelevant whether she got the disease from a black man or a white man. The point still stands that she did not care about her sexual health enough to practice safe sex. People really need to stop blaming others for things that they bring onto themselves.
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I really hate howthe white media has been trying to paint her as some kind of a victim. If she's going to go slutting around, having unprotected sex with every guy she meets, then who's fault is it that she contracted AIDS?It's irrelevant whether she got the disease from a black man or a white man. The point still stands that she did not care about her sexual health enough to practice safe sex. People really need to stop blaming others for things that they bring onto themselves.



She has not got Aids.. she has HIV..and with todays combination therapiesv she can expect to live a full life and never cotract aids..which is a pity as she deserves to die.
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