Well hello again Apedemak. As formy responses, clearly you misunderstoodwhat I was saying...before I response, I hope youtoo are feeling
well in your self...Finally, Isenseby your method oftrying to correct this young woman asanindicatorthat
you are not family sothis
will be the final word to you....
First of all, my response was not to be taken a means of challenging me only use as a measure of representating who I am (by story-telling)...its was
simply my story and nothing more...so your statements really does
not merit any formof reality as far as the issue
of blame goes...
On that note, the assumption that you assumed appears confusing (by direction of your insight) when you stated that:
"Has nothing to do with the other culture, can't blame someone else for your personal trials and what not. Its like saying,
''I didn't have the need to commit a crime until I met a criminal'' Blaming you meeting someone of a certain ilk for bringing out something that was obviously already there is no answer to anything."
Now if you
had developed your analytical skills you would have paid attention the first time... My exact words were:
1.) cause
some folks just can't say no
2.) "then silly me what messing around
conducting experiments on myself trying to see just
how addiction really works."
End point...so dear, no blame of Others were mentioned only an indication of reasons as to the issue at hand (
trying out measures of testing the boundaries of addiction)...I stated the following:
3.) I'm not trying to funny, but I did not drink regularly until I
engaged in another culture that does it..
So, by this one can only surmised what does she mean when she stated that 'engaged in another culture'... Youpersume it meantbeing involved with a particular ilk thereby coming across as "
well let me correct this blackchick"...
Your points:
1.) The temptation lies in somethnig that you're not allowed to do and thats dictated by the government of what ever country/state you happen to live in.
2.) By living in a society where YOU can make your own mistakes and learn from them you're freeing yourself from temptation.
3.) Chaos already rules while drugs are illegal.
Therefore,youdid notunderstand what really was being said:
testing of addiction...and your interpretation came out as
"oh she blaming people"...oh she blaming the culture...
Your point:
Why does/did it tempt you in the first place?
So,its better for
youtodirect your opinions to others in the future; as I see where this is heading and your misinterpretation of "white
ideals of attempting to correct this sister" who you attributed asa type of
fostering blame is indeedClassic.
And then,
thehistory lessons started..."The french let.... ."
Instead of trying to correct me by means of a challege, perhaps it is you to need to first try to
understand what is really being said or simply direct your energy elsewhere... because like I said before
...I only deal with family.
Take care and God bless you anyways,
Heather
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