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Default Your opinion... FWB and being single, what's the deal? - 26-03-08, 11:32 PM

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These days, the whole Friends With Benefits thing has become too popular, I have to ask this question..

If you have a FWB, do you still class yourself as single, and how does having a FWB shape your thinking when it comes to forming a more serious but new relationship..

At what point do you let go of a FWB equation when you start a new relationship; and when asked, are you single, what do you say?


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Default 27-03-08, 12:08 AM

sorry, what is 'friends with benifits'??
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Default 27-03-08, 12:24 AM

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sorry, what is 'friends with benifits'??
A friend who you shag,with no strings.


I dont know if this situation is actually possible long term,its bound to get murky along the way.

Although saying that I do have a friend who has been doing this very thing for the best part of 7 years,but she also has confessed to me that she wish this guy would commit to her but she'd rather have him this way than not at all,which is sad.


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Default 27-03-08, 12:35 AM

I don't see the point in it.
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Default 27-03-08, 12:36 AM

i guess it works if you don't want a real relationship but i don't see it lasting too long. also, some people have multiple "friends". just nasty with it. i know people who have been married and just don't want ever settle down again so they go this route.
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Default 27-03-08, 03:13 PM

From my personal witnessing and experience with FWB, it never works out. One of the persons involved almost always enters this arrangement wishing things will evolve into a serious relationship of some sort while the other person has no such intentions. Eventually, it causes problems down the road with unnecessary drama.

LOL...if you do have a FWB, don't make it a regular thing more than a few sex sessions (if that many) if you don't want anyone's feelings to get hurt....


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Default 27-03-08, 11:42 PM

Wow Shemz your girlfriend is ALL THAT!!!!!.........now as for that pic of you in that grey tank-top,I may have to make that my screensaver for a spell,those arms,Gotdang!


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