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Default I am not eating with my hand.... - 18-04-08, 04:12 PM

I was watching the celebrity version of Come Dine With Me, the one with MC Harvey. The first person to cook forgot to dish out some spoons, when they had to comment later on, Harvey LOUDLY proclaimed that" I know i have SOME African in me, but i am NOT eating with my hands!"

Now, some of you maybe aware of this, but i am the last person on earth to be claiming any tom as African, but his comments were, well out of order. Don't get me wrong though, ain't nothing wrong with eating with your hands....i can't image eating fufu with anything but my hand......but the his comments just came out as offensive and stupid.

I know Harvey is hardly a brain box(you have to watch this show to see how thick the boy is, afterwards i could not believe Aleisha Dixon actually married him...the man is a poster child for ANY stereotypes about black people you can think of) But what is it with some people, do they only suddenly ever remember that they have SOME African in them when they want to degrade it?

He didn't mention Africa again in anything he said afterwards, he praised his Caribbean heritage for teaching him how to spice up food etc etc.....but he still had to go there.....why?



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Default 18-04-08, 04:21 PM

Sure you eat fufu/sadza etc with hands but....

ask a westerner how he eats hamburgers? Hotdogs? With a knife an fork?

What about fruit? Pizza? odd shaped bones like goat/lamb? I'd also like to ask Harvey an his ilk about chicken Curious to watch somebody going about a breast using utensils, you'll miss half the meat lol


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Default 18-04-08, 04:23 PM

Was he the only Black person in the group?

People tend to play on their identity if they feel like an outsider in a group, self reassuring;

''hey I'm comfortable enough to make a joke about me being the only orange/green/purple person here''

Masks their discomfort, his way of saying that he is weary of how he should conduct himself around others, play on a stereotype or two to laugh it off.

Should see me go at a piece of lamb .lol. Would have shamed us all.


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[quote=Black Lion;1469533]Was he the only Black person in the group?

People tend to play on their identity if they feel like an outsider in a group, self reassuring;

''hey I'm comfortable enough to make a joke about me being the only orange/green/purple person here''

Masks their discomfort, his way of saying that he is weary of how he should conduct himself around others, play on a stereotype or two to laugh it off.




I get what you are saying, but thats a lame excuse to me. He might have been the only black person there(quite frankly, if it were up to me, i would call him anything but that...but thats another story) but it does nto excuse his stupidity. His Half Camel girlfriend's mother is white, and he himself DOES have whites in his family, so him being nervous around whites is far too fetched a story.

He played himself like a ****ing MORON! He was calling himself gangster rapper and all sorts. He was chewing food like a child, and even had the audacity to ask his guest wheither their views of black people have changed after meeting him!

The boy is a prick...i have no idea how Aleisha actually married him, and literaly thought of ending it after he did the dirt on her. I mean calling him too "common" is putting it lightly. And to top it off, he has the nerve to talk nonesense, like if eating with your hands is some kind of primitive practice used by Africans only.

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PS: Mod if you can, can you please edit the title to include the T in eating....i was in a bit of hurry..cheers very much.


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Default 18-04-08, 04:46 PM

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Sure you eat fufu/sadza etc with hands but....

ask a westerner how he eats hamburgers? Hotdogs? With a knife an fork?

What about fruit? Pizza? odd shaped bones like goat/lamb? I'd also like to ask Harvey an his ilk about chicken Curious to watch somebody going about a breast using utensils, you'll miss half the meat lol



Well funny you mention chicken...the prick ended up cooking chicken wings for his starters, and you should have seen him yamming it up with his HANDS....if only his brain actually worked he might have thoughts twice, but hey.


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Default 18-04-08, 04:53 PM

yes i saw that one. he played up to so many stereotypes. jus think that guy from g4 came to his dinner with his take on hiphop/grime clothing attire. its like no matter how many suits people see jayz and puffy in the only hiphop they see is clothing attire baggy clothes stunnaz hat to the back and generally clothes out of place

that chewing food loud was hilarious
i cant say i caught his comment when i watched the show.
but i only see him as coon-tastic anyway. i try to like him but he irks me sometime. its like since he done the dirt on alesha he seems to have one massive chip pon his shoulder


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Default 18-04-08, 07:43 PM

Question: is this the same MC harvey who dumped his wife for that slapper he was in a musical with?


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Question: is this the same MC harvey who dumped his wife for that slapper he was in a musical with?
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Well then nuff said really the man is a prize prick....


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Default 19-04-08, 03:20 PM

Wow.

Sounds like you guys know more about the grime scene than I do. .lol.


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Default 19-04-08, 03:30 PM

I would ask what was he expected to eat with his hands ?

It does matter..........


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I would ask what was he expected to eat with his hands ?

It does matter..........
hmmmm

nah I'll behave.

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Default 19-04-08, 07:42 PM

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When I saw it was Harvey you were talking about I could not feign shock or surprise. These shows get prized-ass ****** like him for the very reason to 'imply' that baffoons like him are representative of black people. I can't help but feel sisters who pick up with guys like these have low self esteem and absolutely no respect for their race. Either that or they must be desperate beyond belief. The boy is a disgrace.

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